“Hey there beautiful, you are allowed happiness and peace in your life. You are allowed to remove those things that are not uplifting your spirits, you are allowed to make yourself a priority in this lifetime, and do not allow anyone to take this away from you.”
I am a firm believer in protecting my energy, my vibe, and my peace. If something doesn’t make me happy, or is not serving a positive purpose in my life, I have learned to let it go. As people we are allowed to distance ourselves from people, situations, and things that “kill our vibe.” If we do not protect our energy who will? Definitely not the soul suckers of the world, a melodramatic example, but one that I feel speaks volumes. If your soul is not being fed with positivity then changes must be made.
Our environment is shaped by the people we spend time with, which is partly why we have to be selective with who we allow in our circle. When we are around people whose character or values are different, it is an instant “rub us the wrong way kind of feeling,” also known as the “vibe killer.” As for me, I would like to keep vibing and living life on my terms, so below are 5 ways to protect the energy that is yours Baby Boo!
5 Ways To Protect Your Energy, Peace & Happiness
- Be selective with who you spend your time with, and if necessary you can cut any hang out short. Negativity breeds negativity, positivity breeds positivity!
- Focus on your needs, and your needs alone. The people external to you that are not getting what they want out of you may label this as being selfish, so be prepared for this label, and remind yourself that your needs matter, even if you have to chant this in your head to make it stick. You get to create the standard for what you allow in your life.
- Say the oh so short word, “No” when you do not want to do something. You are not on this earth to please people, you are here to live life for yourself, and to please you.
- Take a break from everything, including your phone. Put that bad boy on silent, and turn it over so you don’t have the chance to see the screen light up when a message is coming through. This is a simple way to recuperate and take a moment to do whatever your heart desires.
- Have fun! Do things that are enjoyable. Joy aids in positive vibes and energy. Go to the beach, bowling, mini golfing, the movies, have a game night, karaoke, do art, and there are so many other things that we could do. When we enjoy ourselves it uplifts us and that is what we need more of.
When our energy is not being depleted we will no longer feel exhausted and weighed down, which gives us the room to do the things that we need, as well as the things that we want. Save your energy, live life, and accomplish great things!
Peace & Love
Gabrielle
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